Relatives in Westport of a missing North Carolina man are trying to remain positive as the search continues for Kyle Fleischman.

Connecticut family members of Fleischman attended a vigil for the man in New York City Sunday. The vigil was one of six set up in different cities by Fleischman's friends.

Fleischman disappeared a month ago after leaving a Charlotte, N.C. bar. Relatives say they're devastated by the man's disappearance.

"We are just constantly thinking about it ? it's just unbelievable," says Colleen Fleischman, the missing man's cousin.

A Web site has been set up to find Kyle Fleischman. The site is offering a $25,000 reward for information leading to his recovery. Relatives say the longer Fleischman is missing, the harder it is to cope.

"At first, I didn't believe it," says Dennis Fleischman, another cousin. "But as time goes on, the worry just builds and builds and builds."

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